This page is here to explain my approach, not to assign fault, label parents, or reduce complex family dynamics to one side being “right” or “wrong.”
If you’re here, you’re likely holding pain, not only from distance, but from confusion about how families reach this point at all, and what to do about it now.
This work is not about shaming parents, blaming children, or encouraging anyone to live in victimhood. It’s about understanding human behavior, societal influence, emotional pain, and responsibility, and learning how to respond with steadiness, clarity, and maturity rather than fear or reactivity.
My perspective comes from years of studying psychology, neuroscience, moral frameworks, human behavior, and communication, alongside working closely with families navigating estrangement and reconciliation, and my own experience as the estranged child.
I’ve spent a long time observing what genuinely supports repair and reconnection, and what - often unintentionally, pushes relationships further away.
This work is grounded in:
I work with parents who are navigating distance or clearly strained relationships with their adult children and want guidance on how to approach with clarity, steadiness, and integrity.
These are parents who:
(This work is not about assigning fault. It’s about learning how to engage in a way that does not add further disconnection.)
My work is not for:
I do not support harm or abuse - ever.
Healing is often misunderstood. In this work, healing does not mean erasing the past, denying pain, or demanding instant forgiveness. True healing means developing the capacity to hold compassion, responsibility, and forgiveness at the same time.
It means:
Healing is not avoidance. It is depth.
Many approaches focus on emotional validation alone. Others focus on accountability without compassion.
This work integrates both.
I teach parents how to:
If you’re new, I recommend:
Take your time. Clarity creates stability.
